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The Goldilocks question: what's just right for real homes? For years, the conversation around home size has been framed as a choice between extremes: oversized houses with unused rooms, or tiny homes that promise freedom through radical reduction. But for many people, neither option truly supports the way life unfolds. A right-sized home isn’t defined by square footage alone. It’s shaped by proportion, flow, and livability - by how well spaces support daily routines, changing needs, and long-term comfort. Designing small-not-tiny often means focusing on flexibility, thoughtful circulation, and rooms that can adapt as life expands and contracts. Rather than asking how much we can strip away or accumulate, the more useful question is how our homes support the lives unfolding inside them. When scale, intention, and design work together, a smaller home can feel generous, calm, and deeply functional. I explore this idea more fully in my latest Design Dispatches letter Small, Not Tiny, where I reflect on what “just right” looks like in real homes- and why the missing middle matters. 👉 Read the full letter on Substack → That’s where I share ongoing reflections on home, garden, and thoughtful design rooted in real life and lived experience. With contentment & possibility,
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For years, the conversation around home size has been framed as a choice between two extremes: bigger houses with unused rooms, or tiny homes that promise freedom through radical reduction. But for many people, neither option truly fits the way life unfolds. A right-sized home isn’t about square footage alone. It’s about proportion, livability, and how well a space supports daily routines, changing needs, and long-term comfort. Designing smaller - without going to extremes - often means focusing on flow, flexibility, and rooms that work harder without feeling overworked. I explore this idea more fully in my latest letter, Smaller, Simpler, More Beautiful, where I reflect on what it means to craft homes that quietly support real life. You can read the full piece on Substack, where I share weekly reflections on home, garden, and living a smaller, simpler, more beautiful life. With contentment & possibility,
This essay was originally written in 2021, when the tiny house movement was gaining widespread attention. While the core ideas still hold true, I’ve since written an updated and more reflective version of this piece - exploring small, but not tiny living through the lens of design, lifestyle, and lived experience. 👉 You can read the new letter here on Substack: Smaller, Simpler, More Beautiful I hope you'll join the conversation there. The American Dream has virtually always been: more + bigger = better. The fad and trend that's predominated the last many decades has been to stretch yourself to the limit in order to acquire the most impressive home possible. This home would prove that you were successful, and obviously make you comfortable and happy. Over many decades, that's turned into crazy-big homes which required large incomes to buy and maintain, along with massive consumption of resources to build and live in. Now-a-days, it's not surprising that the new trend is all about the teeniest tiniest home possible. The pendulum tends to swing, doesn't it? Like most things in life, we tend to learn from experience and then often run the other way. Now, the smaller, more minimal and more mobile a home, the better. Tiny is fine if that's what you really need or want, but it's pretty extreme and unsustainable by most standards. A more manageable and still meaningful downsize might mean reclaiming older, smaller homes and shifting to a less consumerism mentality, while still participating in a mainstream community and lifestyle. ~ blog post continued below ~
This post was originally written as a simple look at holiday décor here at Juniper Hill Cottage, back in 2021. Over time, my thinking about the Christmas season — and how we live inside it — has deepened.
If the Christmas season sometimes feels louder, busier, or more exhausting than you’d like, you’re not alone. I’ve written a new letter reflecting on why I’ve struggled with the season at times — and how small, intentional choices at home have helped me make peace with it. → Read An Artful Cottage at Christmastime on Substack I know the day after Thanksgiving is supposed to be all about making lists of things to give or buy. And spending all day in line to get the best deals. But here at The Whiskey Porch we do the exact opposite. Enjoying each other with gratitude for what we have and adding artful décor to our little home. And spending time outdoors which is often gorgeous in these parts! Here's a little peek at how we do things, Nordic style, here at Juniper Hill Cottage... ~ post continues, click Read More ~ A little note: This original post from 2019 has been one of the most-read articles on my site, and I’m still so grateful for that.
If you’d like to settle in for an even more personal take on why porches pull us in, I’ve started a new series on Substack, where I dive deeper into the history, design, and heartfelt philosophy of porch living. You can read Part I here: Why Are Porches So Alluring? Remembering How I First Fell in Love. I've always been enamored with the Craftsman Bungalow - but didn't even realize it at first. I remember spending time in the Pasadena California area house hunting for a possible job move decades ago and just being hypnotically drawn to the older bungalows that abound there. I didn't know then, but it was a truly American architectural style that was also common all over San Francisco where I'd lived most of my life. Looking back, the feature that always caught my eye first and drew me in, was the front porch. And now, owning and living in a 1924 craftsman bungalow in northern Arizona, I find myself excited beyond words that we opened up the front porch which had been enclosed somewhere in the 60's or 70's. We started that whole renovation project in summer 2019, and it wasn't really finished until summer 2021, but it was so worthwhile. (You can find out more about that project here: Juniper Hill Cottage.) It feels glorious to be in that space now without the constraint of the walls and windows. Friends and neighbors come into the space and just marvel at how delicious it is. We try to imagine why anyone would have chosen to enclose this fabulous space. Every chance we get, which is pretty much daily, we end the day on this exceptional front porch. Never get tired of it or the view.
So I thought I'd write a piece to explore the idea. ~ post continues below ~ (now on Letters from The Whiskey Porch) If you love thoughtful design, authentic craftsmanship, and homes that live beautifully in small footprints — you’ll enjoy this one. I’ve shared a new Design Dispatch featuring my favorite books and publications for anyone who’s drawn to bungalow style, timeless architecture, and soulful living. These are the design titles that have truly earned their place on my shelves here in our 1924 Craftsman cottage in Prescott, Arizona. Whether you’re dreaming up your next renovation or simply seeking inspiration for a simpler, smaller home with soul — this curated reading list is a wonderful place to start. 👉🏼 Read the full story and join the conversation on Substack: Bookshelf: Design Classics for the Small Home & Bungalow Life → With contentment and possibility, ~Miriam (Blog post originally published in 2019. Now updated and expanded for 2025!)
I’m launching a new series over on my Substack called Porches & Cottages of Prescott — and it’s exactly what it sounds like. These are fun, visual Notes from my evening walks through the historic neighborhoods of Prescott. With my loyal yellow lab, Ibis, at my side, I’ve been noticing all the soulful, timeworn, and beautifully crafted porches and cottages that make this mountain town so special. It’s not about perfection — just the charm, character, and details that make a house feel like home. I'll be sharing short glimpses a few times a week — one image, one line, and a detail worth noticing. ✨ Want to follow along? You can find the full series over on Substack (and check out the intro post while you’re there): 👉 letters.thewhiskeyporch.com. This will be fun!
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We’ve refreshed and expanded this story, and it now lives over on our Substack, Letters from The Whiskey Porch. That’s where the conversation is happening these days, and I’d love for you to join us there: The Myth of Tiny, The Magic of Small This blog post was originally published here on 9.10.2023 Today is "Sustainable House Day" - actually, the beginning of a month-long celebration that takes place in Australia every year now since 2017. https://sustainablehouseday.com/ Many things go into defining whether a home is "sustainable" or not, and it depends on who you ask. Of course, most of us would assume that efficient energy use, low environmental impact during the build as well as use of greener materials, products and technology would always apply. The result of much of that is to also end up being budget friendly for the inhabitants of the home over time (although I'm not certain that the up-front investment in these higher end materials and technology is less of a budget drain currently than standard materials, and that's part of the hesitancy.) Here in the U.S. (and around the world) we are still in the throws of the Tiny-House-Craze. One of several reasons so many find it an intriguing concept is that it's assumed to be a vastly more sustainable option than your typical American home. I would tend to agree with this idea theoretically, for some individuals. However, I would argue that when viewed from the collective perspective of making a real and ongoing impact in our larger communities, tiny homes are NOT a sustainable option. And that there should be a wider, more vocal dialogue about small-not-tiny homes as the path to meaningful sustainability for both the environment and the larger community. Let me explain. ~ post continues, click Read More ~ A Natural Approach to Home & Garden Design |
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